the girl who was never there

On a far more serious note, a small part of me worries that you won't truly believe me when I say I'm non-binary. But I really do trust that you can and will treat me with love and respect.


this like all things, will be a process
and this is one of the earliest steps, socially transitioning with my family.

DAY TO DAY CHANGES

first and foremost, pronouns are such a little change in daily conversation but truly means the world to me!
With that in mind I go by They/Them/Themself

Of course I do not expect you to get it right over night, but I do expect some active effort to not misgender me :|
also of note, in conversation if you do slip up just quickly correct your self, no "OooOooOoOo I'm so sorRry, I called you her didn't I?" It just makes it worse amigo.
But I have a shit ton of faith you'll do great :-]

p.s
the gender netruality contiues with descriptors, so please call me your sibling or sib (instead of sis) if you'd like!

What's in a Name?

Alas a lot of dysphoria it turns out!
I feel a compulsion to apologise for all the hours it took mum to find a name, just for me and go find discomfort in it (typical me). If I'm being entirely honest I've never trult felt comfortable with my name, It never seemed to feel like me and the amount of euphoria I got from exploring names has shown it's time to put the o.g ot down.

What name have I chosen to continue my existence with you may be wondering??
Well drum roll please!

My name is...


^ a helpful diagram ^